“Grace, I want you to dress appropriate for the upcoming stock broker’s dinner dance because my boss and the entire staff members will be there. Remember, I just got promoted. No embarrassment”
“Grace, my parents are visiting this weekend, can you tidy up the house, especially the kitchen. Since my mother is an obsessive compulsive neat freak”.
“You have a lot of lip stick on, stop talking to these men at your work place, prepare this meal, do the laundry on Thursdays and so on”. Men are always in command, searching for more and always demanding a lot from their women.
“Jimmy, can you pass by the mall after work and get me the Christian louboutine shoes we saw the other day. ” Can you pass me the plate Jimmy”.. Jimmy, please watch the baby whiles I clean up your mess….Jimmy, Jimmy, Jimmy….do this, do that.
Expectations in relationships can be really high and stressful.
Women do not like submissive men, and men do not like dominant women.
Women are made gentle and sweet while men are created to be the strong leaders. Men always want women to keep up with whatever they desire. Women also require certain roles and responsibilities to be neatly played by men.
Refusal to comply with demands in relationships results to ugly, excessive competitive mess, break-ups and fights. No one wants to accept a defeat.
When a compromise on demands cannot be met, both blame one another for being exceptionally demanding and bossy.
At the end of the tunnel however lies the true to the question; which sex appears to be very bossy and demanding in relationships? Men or Women?
Some decades ago, women used to blame men for being bossy, dictators and over the top, however, in this age and time, men are in perpetual protest of women being bossy at work, home, social gatherings and so on.
They call themselves the “independent women and working class ladies”. They have higher demands and the irritating philosophy of “what men can do, women can do and do even better” rules their lives.
With today’s generation, most men have no say or have lost their pride as head of the family, because of reigning champions and bosses (women) at home. The jobless men are the worst.
Some women now seem to wear the pants and their men wear the skirts and aprons.
It’s obvious, our ladies run their mouth a lot and expect every responsibilities to be taken care of, hence, their bossy attitude, however, men believe to have inherent right to be heads over every tom, dick and harry at home, dictate, rule, give orders and want every work to be covered under their behest.
Let’s discuss: Which sex is very bossy and dictates a lot in relationships, Men or Women?
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